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My life as an Enfield escort; Sapphire is a 29yo Ebony escort girl who works in an Enfield massage parlour in the city centre:

How did you become one of the top black escorts in Enfield? Top? Haha, I'm not sure I am. Starting as an escort in general? Had to. My boyfriend walked out on me and left me with 2 young kids to feed. Working in the beauty salon that I was at just wasn't going to cut it. I'd make more money just claiming benefits. I wanted to give my kids a great start in life so I needed to find a way to make serious cash. Erotic massage girl work pays me a couple of grand a week cash. There's nowhere else that I can get that sort of money.

Do you remember your first booking? I've been doing this 6 years now and yeah, my first booking is still memorable. It's funny, I remember walking away from the massage parlour that night thinking, ''damn, the money is amazing but I can't imagine doing that with a new guy every day''. The reason I felt like that was because of the emotional investment and time investment. It was like I'd been some guy's girlfriend for the last few hours. It was emotionally draining. I felt like I needed a couple of days off afterwards because I really got into the role and gave it everything. Now, I've learnt how to be sincere and please the client without getting so emotionally and physically drained by the end of the encounter. Being an Enfield escort is like going to the gym. You get more used to the workouts and build resistance after a while.

Did you have any sexual encounters with your first booking? Yes, as just said. He wanted the full girlfriend experience. I spent a couple of hours with him just kinda talking and being close. Only at the end of the session did we have full sex.

How did it feel the first time having sex for money? Great. I remember looking at the wad of cash on my kitchen table. It was about 1 am on a Monday or Tuesday night. My kids were sleeping and the babysitter had just left. I went into their rooms and kissed them goodnight. It was an amazing feeling looking at that money on the table. I knew that everything was going to be alright from then on. My children would never go without anything.

After being a Cockfosters escort for so long, do you still enjoy sex? Yes. I didn't get into it for the sex but I must admit, there are some clients that I enjoy seeing and have good experiences with. I've always felt it very hard to cum - even in my personal life - so it's extremely rare for me to orgasm with a client. But it has happened. My personal sex life has suffered because of my Enfield adultwork escorts life. Obviously I'm not really interested in the likes of ONS or Tinder and such. If I'm going to have sex in my personal life then I want it to be with someone I can see a future with. At the moment, I'm not really worried about meeting anyone. I have my two kids and I'm doing my own thing. Maybe in another 4 or 5 years, I might change my mind and start looking for a life partner. Maybe I won't still be in the game by then.

What is the most requested service you get from clients at your Enfield escorts agency? If you look at the online escorts you should see a clue. All of the girls list 'the girlfriend experience' as the first service on their profiles. It's certainly my most requested service too. I don't think that's unique to UK escorts. I have some friends who work in Amsterdam in the escort girl game and they say the same. Clients are just lonely guys. They're not bad or vagrants. We're talking about hard-working professional men, most of who are married. They just want some intimacy. Maybe their wives aren't interested in them anymore and they're just looking for someone to show them some care and attention.

Are there any Shemale escorts in Enfield? Yes, my best friend at the massage parlour is a shemale. There are quite a few in the city I think. Most are of South American origin and they have that darker look to them. My friend is the same. I know that they do very well for money and generally have a very steady client base of regulars. I think, on average, they make more money than normal girls, actually. My friend is a little older and doesn't work so much anymore but still makes great money. Ladyboys and tranny’s in London are becoming very popular with straight guys.

Do you regret this career choice at all? Absolutely not. What else would I be doing? I told you, I was working in a beauty salon before this for barely over minimum wage per hour. I had no skills or education. No other career could have made me the money I've made over the last 6 years. We are talking more than a 100k a year - cash. I'm not saying every girl will make that. Some might even make more! But that's what I've made and there is no way I could've done that any other way. My kids have a good childhood thanks to their mother working as an escort girl. I've also been able to spend more time with them than if I'd been working all of the hours under the sun at another job. I'll probably go into independent escorts in Edmonton. This will give me even more freedom and more money. We'll see. Working at the Enfield massage parlour is so easy and I've become very comfortable there with lots of friends. For a new girl just getting into the game, I recommend you go try a few different escort agencies and then find the right massage parlour for you. All have their own characters. Don't judge the industry on one massage parlour.

Should brothels in Enfield be legalised? In this generation, sexual desire in men is increasing to the extent that it seems to be difficult for a woman to satisfy a man. And with the hope of getting satisfaction sexually, most men prefer to be unstable with just one or two partners. Sex between two genders has gone from the engagement of two opposite sexes that loves each other too; just meeting of two genders to satisfy each other for that moment of sexual aroused. That is, most people are no longer interested in having sex with whom they love but whom they believe can make them happy sexually. With the awake of this, beauty and other quality attraction that could spring up love in man are no longer essential but much interest is put in any opposite sex that can satisfy the desire.  Age, height, weight, shape, colour and other qualities are longer considered by many as long as they can get what they want.

What type of girl becomes an escort in Palmers Green? Most men are ready to spend their money to satisfy their sexual desire and to make the matter compatible, many ladies or women require money and in which the easiest way for them (out of working with their hands) to get it, is to offer their bodies to those who want to satisfy their sexual arousal in exchange for cash. First or in generation back, it is shameful to be used for a sexual tool by men based on one's need and because of that, it is a personal engagement that is done secretly. But nowadays, it is fast-growing and now involving groups of people or females coming together to make prostitution as a Job. It has grown to the extent that there are many young teen escorts in Winchmore Hill around the cities for this job. Such acts might become hereditary to the next generation which might later be difficult to control or stop.

Escorts should be allowed to work in pairs for safety because; It will allow men to satisfy their sexual arousal without much force or violence on their partner. This will hereby relieve women of sexual stress from their partner. It will reduce the level of criminal offence committed by men in order to satisfy their sexual urge. It will give Enfield escorts involved legal rights as the same with others in society. It will save the women involved from illegal prosecution. Even though there are positive and negative effects of legalising brothels, the risk of making it lawful is very high to that of making it illegal. But it is up to the decision of the citizens to vote and determine what they want and create what they want their nation or environment to look like.